You are right, the single stage will struggle to hold onto the v6 torque. My opinion would be try an 18 or 19 bullet, I think a 21 would slip too. In reality, I think you will struggle to be ever really happy with the single stage. I just drove a new 3.9m LVB with j30 (injected) and new flo pro 2 stage. Impressive package, popped up good, cruises along happy as @3000rpm Flat out about 4600rpm, 80ks.
The venturi tube needs to be positioned after the smallest orifice in the jet unit doesn't it? That's behind the nozzle? Anywhere in the tailpipe will be making pressure wouldn't it?